Sweat shop workers wanted

Once, I was swamped with work and was feeling completely overwhelmed by list of things to do, so what did I do? I text Shelby and said, “Hey, let’s go out to lunch and then go look for Christmas ornaments at Tai Pan.”
Which, is the exact opposite of what I should have been doing, but sometimes that is how I cope with too much work and no time to do it. I shut down.

This is what is happening right now. I am looking at Facebook, taking cell phone pictures of my dog and writing this rather boring post on my blog. Don’t tell Kelly. He thinks I’m working. And, seriously, I should be.

Speaking of working.
Around Christmas time, I read this manifesto on Facebook. And, it really struck me for a variety of reasons, but most especially because of the fact that we are small, local business owners and there are so many challenges involved with being self-employed. At the time I read this, I was feeling the squeeze of the economy and our changing industry and basically I was just scared.
I have been trying to patronize small businesses around me since then. I know I’m only one person, but still.

So, now we have this little jewelry business going and I have many large orders to fill. I can’t do it all myself. In fact, I need to be removed from the equation altogether because I need to do the designing and dealing with the business side of this little monster we’ve created. (good monster!) We found a place in New Jersey that can produce my designs, but it’s expensive and slow. We could get it done overseas, but that is just not sitting right with me. (See above.)
One night as I was laying in bed, I had the thought that if we get enough work, I could pay local people to produce it. If I teach them how to do the simple techniques, then send them home with a box of supplies and a deadline, this little jewelry business could benefit me as well as someone else.

People have told me it’s just not cost effective to do it here in the states, especially locally, but I am going to try it anyway. I think it can work. The plan is to have a training session and make a few pieces together till people have the techniques down, and then they can take home the necessary supplies to make the jewelry on their own time schedule, as long as the deadline is met. I will do quality control and pay on a per piece basis.
If you or anyone you know is interested, leave a comment or email me and I’ll get in touch with you about the details.

It’s really not going to be a sweat shop. There will be better wages and, if you sweat a lot while making jewelry, you are doing it wrong.

CamilaFriday January 27, 2012 - 11:23 am

Hi Kelly,
I received your information from Stacy Knight. I love your jewelry and would be interested in working for you and in learning how to make it! Please e-mail me if you are still looking for help. abcebert@hotmail.com
Camila

MarileeFriday January 27, 2012 - 10:46 am

OK, I usually follow your photography blog. Your hubby did our wedding pictures, and some of my siblings. But, my mom and two sisters are very interested!

Josh JohnsonThursday January 26, 2012 - 6:39 pm

I’d be interested, Kelly, depending on the time involved and pay rate, etc. (Oh, this is the Josh Johnson that used to be in your ward…twice. My wife is Mara.) I have my own jewelry tools, if it matters, and I can provide pieces of my own work, physical and photos, for inspection if you like.

I know I’m a late comer, but let me know: joshsoffice@gmail.com

Stacy KnightThursday January 26, 2012 - 2:43 pm

Kelly –

This is Kevin Knight’s wife Stacy. (Kevin from Fat Cat Gallery)

We are so excited things are going so well with your new adventure! We ran into Kelly at the temple a month or two ago and he said you were doing this! We are so excited for you! You are so talented!

When I read this post I just had to tell you, we have a friend – her name is Camila Ebert. Everything she touches turns out beautifully! She would be perfect to help you if you are still looking for help! I gave her your web site address and suggested she post here. She has not made jewelry before but really, she is just Fabulous and you would love her! I wanted to give you a heads up if you saw a post from her! Good luck with things! We can’t wait to see what is in store for you guys!

Famous ErinWednesday January 25, 2012 - 4:24 pm

I’m already on the list right? Did you get my resume? :)

April AnnieWednesday January 25, 2012 - 4:06 pm

Celeste and I are both interested. BTW, your “Had To Be There” story made me laugh for and entire hour. Thanks for the laugh :)

EricaWednesday January 25, 2012 - 1:10 pm

I’m interested. :)

SusanWednesday January 25, 2012 - 12:33 pm

I’m interested. I’d love to learn to make jewelry and the extra cash is a plus!

ElaineWednesday January 25, 2012 - 11:46 am

I think it’s a fabulous idea and I’m interested!

KatieWednesday January 25, 2012 - 11:20 am

Interested. I need a job. I might sweat though- I sweat easily.

AmyWednesday January 25, 2012 - 10:58 am

If you have a way to do training via the web, I’d love to help. Seriously. Let me know.

BeckyWednesday January 25, 2012 - 10:30 am

I am interested and my sister is interested!

MelanieWednesday January 25, 2012 - 12:39 am

I would be happy to help. Also my sis in law asked if you were looking for people to help you. I’m sure she is interested. So excited for you guys!

this might be a ‘had to be there’ story, but here it is anyway.

It took nearly 12 hours to set up our booth at market. It was an ambitious booth, but we wanted to make a good impression.
During our time setting up, we met all of our surrounding booth neighbors and most of them were very nice, and the rest of them were either interesting or entertaining, so all in all, a good mix of folks.
There was this one guy, Dan, who was there alone, and after getting to know him that first day, I asked him to direct me to the food establishments so that we could grab a quick lunch. He handed me a twenty dollar bill and asked if we wouldn’t mind getting him a lunch each day as well since he was stuck at his booth. No problem.
His order: Just the sandwich. No drink or sides.
So, Kelly heads off to Chick-fil-a. (headquarters in Atlanta!)

Next day, Kelly is heading out for lunch and comes back with turkey sandwiches from a deli. They were good too! But, he made a special trip to get Dan his chicken sammy from Chick-fil-a. I asked Kelly, “He wants another chicken sandwich?” Kelly said, “Yeah, I guess so.”

Ok, so now it’s day three. Kelly went a bit farther to get some yummy burritos from a mexican place. They were good too. After he delivered mine to me, he somewhat begrudgingly headed back up to Chick-fil-a to get Dan’s sandwich. Isn’t that weird? A chicken sandwich every day? That’s what I thought too.

So, day four comes. We are having pulled pork sandwiches and this time, Kelly had to wait in a huge line to get Dan’s daily chicken sandwich. At this point, the chicken run is starting to be kind of annoying. But, the guy is all alone, so what can you do?

The next day, I am going to get the lunch, so I walk over to Dan and say, “Hey Dan, I’m going to the Corner Bakery for some lunch, would you like a salad or something? Or do you want Chick-fil-a again?”
So, he says, “Oh geez. Please no more chicken. I think I’m starting to grow feathers. I don’t think I can stomach another chicken sandwich.”

Oh boy, did I laugh. And laughed and laughed. I’m laughing right now, in fact just thinking about it. Kelly had just assumed he wanted these chicken sandwiches and Dan, not wanting to seem ungrateful, kept choking them down, one after the next.

That day he got a Chinese chicken salad with all sorts of yummy things on it, including a spicy-sweet dressing and edamame.

Famous ErinTuesday January 24, 2012 - 7:56 pm

This is so funny! I can just imagine that guy watching the two of you chow down on your yummy burritos and pulled pig sandwiches. And he’s over there wondering why you get the good stuff and he just gets another freaking chicken sandwich. Bahahahaha!

RachelSaturday January 21, 2012 - 6:18 pm

Nice KD, Really nice. I’m sure the guy was just grateful for the kindness. I’m so very proud of you two, big steps and big jumps. I hope the rewards of the trip keep coming in…

CherylThursday January 19, 2012 - 9:00 pm

Oh, it hurts I’m laughing so hard and I can’t see through the tears to finish the last few sentences. Great story…..great story!!!

GregThursday January 19, 2012 - 1:40 pm

You know what they say about when we “ASSuME”? . . . This is a good story. I can only imagine Kelly D’s face when he found out.

Southern hospitality alive and well

Its true, guys. People in the south are so nice! Is nice too generic a word? Ok, how about these: helpful, friendly, polite, smiley, pleasant, chatty, personable.
But I have a question…
Why is it, that when I talk to someone with a southern accent, do I start to talk with a fake southern accent?
I keep catching myself mid-sentence and willing myself to quit because how big an idiot do I sound like?
Pretty big.
But here is the thing… I wish I could talk like that all of the time.

mollieThursday January 19, 2012 - 8:47 am

i just moved to houston from philly – i have no chance! :)

aislinnWednesday January 18, 2012 - 6:13 pm

having been raised in the South I can honestly say I KNOW WHAT YOU MEAN!! It’s just a way of life down there – to treat people that way (for the most part) and to be loving and inviting – to treat everyone as your neighbor. As for the accent… you can practice it with me anytime because it is fun, isn’t it?! ;)

EricaMonday January 16, 2012 - 10:27 pm

I noticed the same thing when I lived in Florida. I had people, young men with tattoos even, treat me with more respect than I’ve ever had. Sincerely too! People in grocery stores and all over were just so helpful and friendly. I could learn a lot from them. :)

ElaineMonday January 16, 2012 - 6:40 pm

Mimicking is an inherent, subconscious kind of thing!! Basically it’s good that you do it because it means you want to empathize with these lovely, hospitable people! I learned about it in psychology. Here’s a quote from a little article about it:
‘Scientists from the University of California, Riverside, found the subconscious copying of an accent comes from an inbuilt urge of the brain to “empathise and affiliate”.’
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/science/science-news/7931299/Humans-subconsciously-mimic-other-accents-psychologists-claim.html

April AnnieMonday January 16, 2012 - 10:34 am

I spent a week in Memphis with a friend and did the same thing. I know I sounded stupid but the drawl just begged to come out! Congrats on this past weekend. I hope it continues to bring you big success. Celeste and I were just saying the other day how great you are at taking your talents and making them into your dreams come true. GOOD LUCK!

April AnnieMonday January 16, 2012 - 10:30 am

I spent a week in Memphis with a friend and did the same thing. I felt really stupid but the drawl just begged to come out. I’m so happy for your success this weekend and hope it continues to bring you great things. Celeste and I were just saying the other day how great you are at making your dreams a reality.

Friday the 13th. LUCKY

Today was the first day of market. We worked our tails off all day long yesterday setting up our booth.

setting up

After we finished setting up, we had a quick dinner then headed back to the hotel to finish pricing all the product and getting our order forms ready. We didn’t get to bed until 1 am! It wasn’t bad though because at that hour, and after such a long day, everything is funny. We were laughing to the point of tears at the dumbest things, mostly the names I have given some of these jewelry pieces. Good times.

We were up bright and early this morning and headed first thing back to market. Want to see the booth? Ok, drumroll…………..

booth

We used some old windows and a door to create this store front facade. Inside each window is a one of four different collections of jewelry I designed. Each collection was made with similar colors and materials or with the same feel so they look great together as a group.

The first one is called Route 66.

route66

Think silver, turquoise and leather. I wrote little stories or thoughts to go with each piece so that people will have a more personal connection with the jewelry in addition to being drawn to the look. I want them to be meaningful. Here’s the intro to Route 66:

When I was in my early 20’s, I had a little red pick up truck. That truck, plus a full tank of gas was absolute freedom.
I used to go on road trips every weekend with my girlfriends. My mother gave me a McNally road atlas for my birthday, and I made a hand-tooled leather cover for it and carved the words “Live Free” on the front. It was always in the glove compartment of my little truck. We would take it out, choose a state, close our eyes and blindly point to our next destination on the map. We slept on the side of the road or in parking lots in the bed of that truck. We drove it to see bands play in small clubs, to Las Vegas, or during those bleak pre-spring weeks, we drove until we found the sun in California.
This jewelry collection is infused with that attitude and spirit. Stopping at Native American roadside jewelry stands, eating out of rest stop vending machines, wind in your hair, your favorite music on the radio, a road atlas, and of course…
a full tank of gas.

Next is Nature Inspired:

There is more inspiration for art in nature than anywhere else. Color, texture, metaphor and the changing of the seasons have inspired this collection of jewelry.
I hope that you feel my appreciation for the beauty of the earth in every single piece.

seasons

Then there’s Vintage Treasures:

I love old things. Objects that have a history are fascinating. If they could speak, they would tell tales of the lives of people that lived with and loved them. Vintage jewelry is especially close to my heart. Who wore it? Was it a gift? Where has it traveled and what has it seen?
With this collection of jewelry, I have tried to create pieces that you will be sentimental about. Pieces that look and feel like they have a history. Antiqued metals, lockets and pearls have all been used to this end. Wear them through your own life’s adventures and someday they will tell your own story.

vintage

And, lastly, I did a collection called Caribbean Getaway:

This collection of jewelry was inspired by a recent Caribbean vacation. Upon arrival, it was love at first sight. I was in love with everything I saw: water, sun, sand, shopping in street markets, even the buildings in the villages.
My hope is that you will love the colors and materials I have used in these pieces. That they will evoke the atmosphere of that magical place and that no matter where your daily grind takes you, in a corner of your mind, you’ll be somewhere in the Caribbean, a million miles away from responsibility.

caribbean jewelry

People seem to get it. They are appreciating what I have tried to do with this product and we’ve written several orders today. I hear it’s even busier on Saturday and Sunday so I’m excited to see what tomorrow brings!

joana sandersFriday January 20, 2012 - 9:39 am

oh wow, even cooler than i thought it would be. SO amazing. and i’m sure you didn’t even notice but i never texted you while i was in utah. i totally wanted to hang out but never had a free day with the wedding, sisters, grandmas, etc…next time k:)

ChadSunday January 15, 2012 - 6:01 pm

Your booth is very cool. I love each little unique display.

EricaSaturday January 14, 2012 - 10:51 pm

Amazing. :) I wish I could have them all, and I’m not even that into jewelry. You could make me like it though….

JennieSaturday January 14, 2012 - 4:06 pm

The booth looks awesome. You guys are so creative. That is such a talent – it really is. I have little to no creativity in my soul and so I truly appreciate people who have that gift. The jewelry looks great. Are some of the pieces in your etsy store as well? I would love to look at them up close – well as close as one gets in etsy. :) Good luck! I hope these last two days go well.

JulietSaturday January 14, 2012 - 4:04 pm

UN*Believe*ABLE! I am fascinated by your talents! The store front theme is so cool and looks amazing! I have been thinking of you down there, going for it…looks like you have put together some beautiful pieces and themes! Good luck today.

Sharon SansomSaturday January 14, 2012 - 1:57 pm

I never fail to be amazed! As I’ve said before, “Is there anything you can’t do”? And the two of you together?—the skies the limit! Love you both, you’re in my constant prayers. LM

Amber GSaturday January 14, 2012 - 11:44 am

Wow! It looks amazing! Best of Luck!

AshleySaturday January 14, 2012 - 8:05 am

Awesome! I am blown away, you guys are so creative. What a fun, exciting thing to work on together! Hope this weekend goes great-

ElaineSaturday January 14, 2012 - 1:15 am

Wow Kelly! The final display looks extraordinary, but that’s no surprise because whatever you do you do so well. In orchestra one year our theme was “sometimes good is the enemy of great.” I think your life exemplifies this idea. Congratulations on the big orders. You are the woman!

Famous ErinFriday January 13, 2012 - 11:32 pm

Love it! I can’t wait to hear all the details. I love that you and KD were laughing to tears. Precious!

KayLynnFriday January 13, 2012 - 10:40 pm

Everything looks so good. The Fish and I were reading this post together and he told me that I read too slow. I told him that I was savoring the moment and taking it all in. You’ve really done an excellent job. Good Luck tomorrow! The “Circus” is great!

RachelFriday January 13, 2012 - 9:46 pm

The booth and the jewelry is beautiful, no stunning. You have such a gift and a talent to find beauty, to create beauty and embrace beauty. The market people are lovin’ you.

HeatherFriday January 13, 2012 - 9:14 pm

You amaze me. If only I had a smidgen of your talent, ambition &I energy. Go get em’!

ChristyFriday January 13, 2012 - 8:35 pm

Woot! Way to sell you two. Can’t wait to hear tomorrows success.

Kim EFriday January 13, 2012 - 7:55 pm

Wow on this post and the previous two as well! I miss you Mrs, and BISHOP Sansom and am happy life is being so good to you. I stalk you often, and you just don’t know it. Am sad we didn’t make it out to dinner before he became bish. Now where will all his extra time on his hands go? Take care can’t wait to see you in the stores! Looks like Anthropologie stuff to me. Well done!

HeidiFriday January 13, 2012 - 7:39 pm

Man, they all look so beautiful!!! You are so talented!!

This little piggy went to market

Helllllllooooo from Atlanta!
Long day of traveling, but we arrived here and had just enough time to head over to where the market is held and find out booth space.
I took a picture of it’s skeleton because see that sign hanging there that says Boutique? That means we got into the section we wanted, but thought we didn’t get into. SO happy about that. It’s a juried section, which means you have to apply, and be approved to be in there. They are also more picky about how the booth spaces look too.

boothspace

We found our space and were relieved to find that our 600 pound eagle (box O’ stuff that we shipped) was intact and exactly where it was supposed to be. We began setting up tonight, but will finish tomorrow. Ours is a shallow 4′ deep but 25′ wide. Wait till you see what we have planned for it!

We walked around to check out some of the other vendors and found the center of the building which Kelly referred to as the Borg Collective. Do you know what that is? No? Ok, how about this: It also looks like that scene from Star Wars where Luke is fighting with Darth Vader and he finds out he’s his father (Luuuuuke…I am your faaaaaaather) and then almost falls off that balcony into endless space.
Why don’t I just show you the photo I snapped with my phone then.

market

I am a tiny, little fish in that giant pond. Look at that! I couldn’t even get all the floors in the photo. Oh, and this is only one of three buildings. It is an intimidating scene. But, Kelly is all pumped up about it, so it’s rubbing off. I always feel freaked out whenever I do anything like this. Boutiques, bridal expos, you name it. It’s like setting up a booth and sitting there asking people to like you. It’s brutal. But, exciting too. I will focus on that.

Lastly, I will leave you an iPhone photo of Kelly D. on the longest escalator I have ever seen. It is at the Peachtree subway station and goes straight into the earth’s core. I think the walls are actual bedrock, or magma, or wait, what’s in the center of the earth?

kellyd

ChristyThursday January 12, 2012 - 9:30 am

Very Exciting! Gonna be great!

KayLynnThursday January 12, 2012 - 7:13 am

WOW! That place is huge! Can’t wait to see how your space turns out! I’m very excited!

joana sandersThursday January 12, 2012 - 7:00 am

wow that looks awesome! i can’t wait to see your display. btw, i’ll be in utah next week- if you’re not still in atlanta lets hook up! i’ll text you. good luck!!!

RachelWednesday January 11, 2012 - 11:04 pm

oh… I am so excited for this new adventure for you both! Kelly, your work is amazing!! Have a little fun people watching too :)

Lisa BarlowWednesday January 11, 2012 - 10:57 pm

Good luck! You’ll be great!! You and Kelly are a great team and your product rocks.

JennieWednesday January 11, 2012 - 10:41 pm

You guys! How exciting. I can’t wait to see pics of the set-up. I LOL’d at the Borg Collective. I wouldn’t say I’m a trekie. But I do have to admit we watched quite faithfully during the Jean Luc and Data years. Anywhoooo…. so glad you arrived safe and sound. Have a great trip. I hope it is very successful! Good luck!

TristenWednesday January 11, 2012 - 10:41 pm

Have so much fun in Atlanta. I love it there! I’m pretty sure I have been on that exact escalator, and believe me, your picture is much better than any of mine of it. It is forever long!! Have fun and good luck!

the latest.

Today Kelly D. was made the bishop of our ward.

We’ve known this would happen for about a week now, and man, it is a strange thing to consider for sure. I have loved our bishop so very much. He is wonderful and I look up to him for so many reasons. There have been times when Kelly is going to meet with him or see him for one reason or another and I have sent The Fish along with him just because I want him to soak up his influence. I guess I have put him on a bit of a pedestal. It’s weird to think of my own husband in that role. Don’t get me wrong, Kelly is an amazing person and I couldn’t be more proud of him, but you know…. I see him with bed head and well… all other manner of human follies. All week long, though, as I pondered this change in our lives, I have realized more and more what a gem I married and I think he will do a great job.

I am going to admit something though. I’m scared. I am scared that I will not measure up to people’s expectations as “the bishop’s wife”, because let’s face it… I’m a bit rough around the edges. I hope I am wrong. So far, people have been wonderful, and some even brought treats to our house tonight! Is that part of this gig? Because it’s awesome.
My boys were very excited. Today, after church they ran to the bishop’s office to get a piece of candy from his candy jar, and they all said, “I can’t believe we have all access to this jar now!” I hope Kelly keeps it full. I may have to help him with that.

The most amazing part of this whole thing though, is that for the past 4 or 5 months, our lives have been going through huge changes. Things that have weighed on my mind and stressed both Kelly and I out. These changes have seemed like bad luck, even trials. I have experienced all sorts of emotions from worry, to sadness, to stress, even bitterness. But, if these changes hadn’t taken place, there is no possible way Kelly would have the time or have been able to do this job. We have seen the hand of God in our lives so much lately. I really believe He was shifting things around and preparing us so that Kelly could be the bishop. I had an amazing experience when he got the call that let me know this is right and I know he is the right person at this time.
Just another reminder that I am not in charge, but I am definitely in good hands.

Faye CrowtherWednesday January 11, 2012 - 12:35 am

Congratulations to Kelly. He will do a wonderful job and so will you. My husband served as the Bishop in our ward for six years and it’s hard and at times taxing, but it is also very rewarding and brings great growth. :) good luck to the both of you in your new journey.

HeidiTuesday January 10, 2012 - 1:20 pm

Kelly I am so excited!!! for both of you!! You are both going to be awesome!! My boys are still talking about how cool Kelly D is and how easy he is to talk to.
In one of our carpools the same conversation was going on, about how easy he is to talk to. That the boys all feel comfortable talking with him.
Just remember those that love you will stick by you, they love you for who you are. There will be some hard times, you know how women are, but you are strong!! You will be awesome!

GregTuesday January 10, 2012 - 12:25 am

Damn, I KNEW there was a reason we moved into that ward . . . we just shouldn’t have moved out! Bishop Sansom is going to be AWESOME!
As for the Bishop’s wife, you are going to redefine the awesomeness of that role. You two are going to be amazing.

HollyMonday January 09, 2012 - 3:56 pm

What wonderful news. I know that you both will do wonderfully, and also know that the only way for Kelly D to be able to do his job to the best and fullest, is by having his best friend & loving spouse by his side. That I’m positive you already do. I also fully believe that a little roughness around the edges is what many need in the land of Zion, it is good for people :)

KimbaMonday January 09, 2012 - 3:10 pm

oh, tell him congrats! kindof a weird thing to say, i know, since he was called and not like he ran for it or anything, (oh man, can you imagine what THAT would be like?!?!) but it’s the closest thing i could think of. :) he’ll be an excellent bishop and you’ll be a fantastic “bishops wife”. for all the reasons you mentioned, and all the reasons you didn’t. love that bit about the candy jar, my dad is the secretary, and i don’t know what wyatt’s going to do when we finally go to our new ward and he doesn’t have grandpa to sit with at church with an endless supply of jelly belly’s. :) speaking of which, the ‘candy jar’ in question is one of those automatic dispensing ones (have you seen em?) and a few months ago we went to clean the church with my family. after awhile we couldn’t find wyatt and searched EVERYWHERE. kinda frightening. we found him though, his face STUFFED with jelly beans, so much he couldn’t talk, and his fists just as full. anyway. long comment, but seriously, you guys will be excellent!

RobynMonday January 09, 2012 - 8:06 am

Take your testimony in Kelly D as the right choice, and throw in there that with God…you two are a matched set. He can’t be perfect for the job if his “better” half isn’t! Good luck to you both! Love you all!

ChristyMonday January 09, 2012 - 7:20 am

It was a beautiful meeting today as the Stake Presidency went through the process of releasing our current bishop, who was indeed phenomenal, and calling a new bishop, who I believe is equal to the task. As well as his beautiful wife. Rough around the edges equals character in my book. So, you don’t only have character but a heart of gold. We are all works in progress, no? You are well loved so don’t be too hard on yourself. You’re character and heart will serve the members of our ward well. Isn’t the biggest part of being a bishop’s wife to support your husband? I have no doubt you too are equal to the task. Sending some Sansom love…

ElaineMonday January 09, 2012 - 12:06 am

WOOT WOOT!!! This is so perfect. The spirit in sacrament meeting was so strong today and you are a perfect partner to this new bishop, so you’re the perfect bishop’s wife. It’s true what they say.

JennieSunday January 08, 2012 - 11:50 pm

Oh wow you guys! That is pretty huge news. Congrats Kelly D. You WILL be fabulous. Your ward is lucky to have you. I wish you guys all the best. However…. I do have to say…. I hope that just because Kel is the bish now, I hope that doesn’t mean an end to silly pics like the one in the b-ball outfit. Although…. if the wrong ward member got a hold of that, they could really do some damage. :)

amy nielsenSunday January 08, 2012 - 11:25 pm

This is so amazing Kelly. I couldn’t be more happy and I truly mean that. The Spirit today during S.M. was so amazing and although he said that he was shocked, I think he was in the minority. Like I told you the other day, he really is a perfect fit. I also think you sell yourself short; you are perfect for this and going to be a super support. Think of the blessings man!

EricaSunday January 08, 2012 - 11:14 pm

He will be great AND you will be an awesome bishop’s wife. :)

TammySunday January 08, 2012 - 11:01 pm

Oh my word he is going to be awesome. And even more, you’re the type of bishop’s wife we all love!!! Do not change. That’s why we all adore you and Bishop Sansom. And for the treats, that’s a bonus! Love you Kelly! You rock sister!

history of a nickname

dubs

Beck. Becker. Becker Boy. Double B. Double. Dubs. (also, Dubby, or Dubby Doo)

That is how his nickname came to be. It changes over time, but Dubs has seemed to stick.
I’ve called him a thousand other things because we Sansom’s are givers of nicknames. We probably have one for you, too! Just ask!
One of my names for Beck only stuck around for a few months because he has forbidden me to use it. Which is just sad because it was a goodie. He won’t let me call him ‘cantaloupe’ anymore. Still tough, every time I look at his head, I think it to myself anyway. And, cantaloupes are delicious.

GregTuesday January 10, 2012 - 12:26 am

Okay, I’m officially asking . . .

RachelSunday January 08, 2012 - 9:05 pm

oh… you have to text me what mine is… I’d rather not see it on the blog. It can’t be good :)
Nicknames are awesome. I call Brodie “Boo” but he hates it, he thinks it means Booger. Some days it does! And Charley is Char-Char. I think of the lady from Love Boat that frequented the show with her crazy Latin accent and tight clothes. Not that Char has an accent of tight clothes, but she is spicy and a Diva some days.

ElaineSunday January 08, 2012 - 1:08 am

Ha!!! Oh my I love the nickname Cantaloupe. You Sansom’s always make me laugh. And I never understood how Dubs could be a nickname for Beck, so thanks!

Nostalgia

kids

It doesn’t feel like winter here. There isn’t any snow to speak of and the temperatures make me wish I wasn’t too busy to get on my bike. For the past week or so, everyday after school the boys head outside to play games like Capture The Flag and variations of tag. It started out with just a few, but every day I look out the window I see more kids that I don’t recognize. They’re like a pack of stray dogs in that way, adding to their numbers all the time. That, and they periodically stick their heads in the door, panting and asking for food.

It reminds me of when I was a kid in the summer. We used to play all day long with the neighborhood kids. Curfew was when the street lights turned on. It was heaven.

I sure hope it doesn’t snow. Global warming or not, it’s keeping my boys outside and out of my hair, and I am loving the sunshine.

Famous ErinSaturday January 07, 2012 - 7:34 pm

I LOVE that! Makes me feel so fulfilled when my kids are on our street, in our yard or house with the other gazillion kids that live around us. Makes me feel like I have done something right.

kaylynnSaturday January 07, 2012 - 3:08 pm

Nice move with that hope it doesn’t snow comment!

KimbaThursday January 05, 2012 - 9:05 pm

Amen!!! We’ve been frequenting the park and I’ve been loving it!

Ringing in the new year

On New Years Eve, we had a few friends over to play some games and ring in the new year. We bought a new game which was actually a bomb, but there were some funny moments. Like this one where Kelly D. and Matt had to be conjoined twins for a time.

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Matt and Jenny are some of our favorite people and every time we get together with them, I wonder why we don’t do it more often. Love them. You may recognize Matt from this post. Matt and Kelly have a relationship that is delightful to witness.

In case you are ever looking for a fun game to play at a get together or a dinner party, we did play one game that night that was super fun and would be great for a wide age range or for people who don’t know each other. The results were hilarious. I found it HERE.

AnnaFriday January 06, 2012 - 4:50 pm

I love/hate Qwelf.I spent the entire game under the table and couldn’t get out until the game was over. It was funny but crappy too. :)

RachelThursday January 05, 2012 - 7:01 pm

Those two are conjoined twins in some many other ways… its only fitting. Including the same hair gel.
Happy New Year, may the year be filled with happiness & tender mercies that only you can appreciate.

GregThursday January 05, 2012 - 12:24 am

I love this game!, but it just got better now that I know you can print off an official game page. I always did it ghetto style and had to make my own.
Depending on your mood, this game can evoke some hilarious results.

out with the old

I can’t sleep these days. And, I have discovered that when I am awake in the wee hours thinking about things, I am more irrational than normal.
Which is saying something.
One small little worry can burrow a hole into my brain and make me think that my life as I know it is going to end. Like, the other night, I purchased a book for on my Nook, so I could read something instead of laying in my bed awake. I started stressing out about how easy it is to click ‘purchase’ and how I am probably spending way too much money on these books and why don’t I just borrow them from the library, etc. I was seriously feeling super guilty. Then, in the light of the next day, everything seems manageable and normal. My thoughts about the book purchase went from anxiety to, Chill. It was $9. Stop freaking out.

Kelly D. is experiencing the insomnia too. This morning, it was 4:30 a.m. and I was playing Words With Friends on my iPhone. Kelly rolls over in bed and was all, “Hey, how’s it going?”

That was a really long lead in to what I was going to write about today, which is my New Year’s Resolutions. I think about them as I lay awake in bed and I have picked the three I want most for 2012. So here it they are.
1. Be healthier. I don’t necessarily need to be super thin, but I want to be strong and healthy. And, I have a goal weight that I wish to get to this year. But the real goal is to be eating better, sleeping more and to incorporate daily exercise in some form or another.
2. Be more forgiving. I am a world champion grudge holder.
3. Be better at time organization. This is a goal every year and I fail miserably, but I think I am slowly getting better, so I will add it to my list.
Finally, I am determined not to neglect my gardens and yard like I did last year. Gardening brings me such happiness, so I am going to make time for it. That’s not really a goal, but a desire.

Also, I am going to blog more. But I hesitate to say I will do it every day because I won’t. But, I’m going to try to write something. Maybe I’ll do like Greg is doing. At least a word and a picture. That could be fun. And he did Double Dog Dare me after all.

GregTuesday January 03, 2012 - 1:58 am

Boy, you’re easy. I was going to pull out the TRIPLE DOG DARE YOU, but thought I needed to reserve that for potential bargaining.
Honestly, I am kinda freaking out that I set such a lofty goal and then told everyone about it, but sometimes I need to set myself up in order to succeed. Here’s to blogging more and pursuing our desires.
I hope Atlanta is amazing. Tell the South hello for me. If it doesn’t understand you, cross your eyes, make a pleasant type pooping face, and say “well hello there” and it will understand.

a simple table and cloth just wouldn’t do

Today, we packed up our trade show booth for Market. We have been working tirelessly on it for the past two weeks and even had an 18 foot section of it set up in our house since the day after Christmas. It was a huge mess. All the furniture had to be pushed aside and it literally filled the room from floor to ceiling.
This is a picture of the pieces and parts making a mess of the garage…

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We managed to pack it all into this one huge box that has to be shipped via truck all the way to Atlanta.

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We were able to save a few bucks using the shipping account at my Mom’s work (sending heavy boxes on trucks is expensive!) and we even got to see her drive a forklift. My boys were beyond impressed. They called her SuperGranny all the way home.

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I’m so happy to have that part of this process done.
After weeks of stress and manual labor, trying to come up with a creative and impressive display, bloody knuckles, cuts, calloused hands, a HUGE mess in my house and shelling out the cheese to ship a several hundred pound box across the country, I picked up the box of jewelry I’m taking and it struck me as funny, that all of this hassle, is to show off the contents of this tiny blue box.

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ChristyWednesday January 04, 2012 - 9:10 pm

Go get ‘em girl. You will be fabulous! Do post pictures of you adventure.

ElaineMonday January 02, 2012 - 4:22 am

Congratulations!!! You’ll do fabulous in Atlanta! When your name becomes even more renowned, I want to pick up jewelry making kits and be one of the little guys.

Famous ErinSunday January 01, 2012 - 7:53 pm

Good things come in small packages.

joana sandersSunday January 01, 2012 - 8:18 am

i want to see a picture of that bad boy! and pics of your awesome jewelry! what an exciting adventure- good luck!

AmieThursday December 29, 2011 - 11:40 pm

it’s like all the gear people get in preparation for a new baby, rooms full of stuff all for a tiny little person :) Good luck with this new “baby” of yours! I’m so excited for you.

AnnaThursday December 29, 2011 - 9:36 pm

How funny that all that set up for one little box of jewelery! You’ll do great, I can feel it!

Christmas

It was a lovely, relaxing day filled with family and smiles and love and gifts.

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Beck got a new bike and a pirate telescope.

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Tate got a remote control helicopter and some Legos.

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The Fish got an electric scooter.

We got to watch them smile and squeal with excitement. It was great.

Hope your Christmas was a good one!

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Happy New Year from our family to yours.

ElaineMonday January 02, 2012 - 4:19 am

Woot! Kelly you are a babe!

Famous ErinSunday January 01, 2012 - 7:52 pm

Looks like redemption from the pictures of Disneyland.

Dawn BThursday December 29, 2011 - 9:06 pm

You have such a beautiful family!! Happy New Year!! : )

TiffanyThursday December 29, 2011 - 11:51 am

I think this is my most favorite picture of you of all time Kelly Anne! Beautiful.

SylviaThursday December 29, 2011 - 9:00 am

I ADORED your Christmas card! Such a wonderful family! Love you guys! Happy New Year to you as well! :D

JennieWednesday December 28, 2011 - 11:59 pm

Beautiful pic you guys! Although, I’m a bit sad not to see a hilly billy theme from you guys. That shot was classic and it makes me smile every time I think about it. :) Happy New Year!!!

Me and my drum.

Today, I cried when I heard The Little Drummer Boy.

I was driving down the freeway, with two loud, silly boys in the back seat. I turned the radio on the Christmas music station and drove along pondering the current state of my life. I am not in balance right now.

The other day Kelly asked me what I really want in life and I said, “Balance.” Turns out, he was looking for Christmas gift ideas, but instead he got a big, fat helping of my feelings.

My time is being spent on getting ready for this upcoming market and not on enjoying Christmas time or my family, but this is temporary and it’s not like every year is this way. But, last night as I went to bed, I prayed for help, because I feel like I’m drowning.

Anyway, back to the story.
So, I’m driving along listening to Christmas music and eavesdropping on Beck talking to his little friend in the back seat, when Michael Buble comes on the radio singing Holly Jolly Christmas. It’s a catchy version of the song and I know all the words, so up goes the volume (me and the radio) and I’m singing along showing off my vocal skills to the kids. Beck said, “Mom, will you please turn off this annoying music?!”
I said, “It’s not annoying. It’s festive. You should sing with me!”
Pretty soon, we are all singing, and just like that…it’s a moment. A memory.

Then a thought came to me. Be where your feet are. I have heard this phrase before and loved it, but at that moment, it hit me that I should try to find happiness and peace in between, or even during all of the many tasks that must be done in the next two weeks.

Right at this moment, the Little Drummer Boy comes on. I know all the words to this one too. It’s a sweet song, isn’t it? The little boy hasn’t a gift to bring to honor the baby Jesus, so he offers to play a song for him, on his drum. A simple gift, yes. But it is the best gift he has to offer. Then the part came where it says, “I played my best for him.” This is when I started crying. I laughed at myself but I couldn’t stop!

I have since decided that the reason for emotion is this… I am feeling a bit of guilt that I am not doing the best job of making Christmas this year fun and meaningful, but for where I am right, now, I am doing my best.
And it will be enough.

RachelTuesday December 27, 2011 - 12:43 am

I recently heard someone say that our lives should always be out of balance, it means we are doing our best and working the hardest at doing all we can do. I hope you had a wonderful Christmas. I think of you often and send you good vibes daily.

JennieFriday December 23, 2011 - 11:44 pm

I love that – be where your feet are. Such a good thing to remember. I hope things slow down for you guys soon.

Have a wonderful Christmas!!!

Famous ErinWednesday December 21, 2011 - 11:14 pm

Short term sacrifices for long term benefits. I am SO proud of you. You are really doing it!!! And you are right, sometimes our “best we can do” just has to be enough. Funny thing though, I am 100% sure that your “enough” beats out a ton of people at the top of their game. I love you, and I am proud of you, and I am coming to see you and I am very excited to get me some Kelly time. Was that weird to say out loud to everyone? :)

testing. testing. is this thing on?

Oh wow. I am really letting myself down with the sparse posting. I was hanging out in my craft room talking to a friend the other day about a booth design for jewelry display and she said, “Well where have you been shopping lately?” To which I replied, “See these four walls? This is what I’ve been looking at for two months.”
It’s true too.
In about three weeks, I am going to market.
Do you know what that means? It’s like, this HUGE trade show where people take products they make or sell and display them to store owners in the hopes that they will like your products and carry them in their stores.

It’s in Atlanta. We are shipping this display we’ve come up with along with the various jewelry lines I’ve designed and we are flying to Atlanta mid January to see what happens.

I am really loving the stuff I’ve been designing and I can’t wait to show it all. But, I am rather sick of my work bench. And, my fingers and nails look like trash from working with silver, beading needles, and glue.

But, there is fun. I get to purchase supplies without the usual guilt of spending too much. (it’s an investment now!)
You should see some of these gorgeous stones I’ve purchased for these new pieces…
Pineapple quartz, platinum Swarovski pearls, and labradorite!
This labradorite is absolutely intoxicating.
I ordered it online so I hadn’t seen these particular stones in person, but when I pulled them out of the package, they took my breath away.

labradorite

I think this stone is pure magic. It looks neutral and gray at times, and then when the light hits it, it flashes with vibrant blues and greens. It transforms when you wear it to go with anything. Turn it over and over in your hand and it looks different every time. Mesmerizing.

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Who needs diamonds? Diamonds schmianonds.

GregTuesday December 20, 2011 - 4:20 pm

This is inspiring and you should be proud of yourself. I miss being creative. The only creativity I get these days is how to “stick it” to one of my loan officers without using the 4-letter words I REALLY want to use.
As for daily blogging, consider yourself TRIPLE DOG DARED. My parameters emcompass mimimum standards: at least one photo to be accompanied by at least one word. Now, I plan on blogging many more words than just one, but I KNOW there will be nights that I am laying in bed, tired, with nothing to blog. Expect a picture of my feet with a one-word caption (Oh, and I have no 4-letter word restrictions on my blog . . . )
Good luck in HOTLANTA! Eat some amazing BBQ in my honor.

JennieMonday December 19, 2011 - 12:39 am

How exciting! I was wondering when you were going to unveil your new venture. Can’t wait to hear all about it. You are right. Those stones are amazing. I’ll have to take a peek in your etsy shop. Although, you are probably saving everything for the show. Wishing you all the best!!!

AmieMonday December 19, 2011 - 12:30 am

I was so hoping you’d share the new venture you alluded to a few posts back. That’s so exciting! Good luck. You wont need it, your jewelry is gorgeous and fun and unique. You are a creative inspiration on many fronts.

RachelSunday December 18, 2011 - 10:33 pm

ahhh beautiful. If you need a break from the bench and the smog come up and play for a couple of hours… its breathtaking other reasons: blue clean sky and fresh mountain air!
You have such a creative mind, I’m sure the MARKET will love you!

Meet Dixie

“It is better to create than to learn! Creating is the essence of life.” ~Julius Caesar

A few days ago, I had the opportunity to meet and photograph the coolest woman. She and her husband live in a charming, old home that has personality to spare. The minute I walked in the door, I was met with the smell of burning incense and softly playing new age music. Every corner of their home has some sort of object that they have collected through the years, and each one has a story behind it.
Some of it is her own art, some antiques, such as the table I used to photograph many of the amulets. It’s a very old relic from an monastery. It has gained such beauty and character through the years, including the bottoms of the legs which were worn unevenly from sitting on dirt floors. Everywhere I looked there was something that piqued my interest. I spent an entire hour just soaking it all in and listening to her talk about each item I pointed out.

She is a local artist who paints and sculpts. My job was to take photographs of her art for documentation purposes as well as highlight a few favorites for a website that’s in the works. I took a few of her as well. While we were shooting, I was stunned to learn that she is 73 years old. She could see the surprise on my face and she said, “Art keeps me young.” (mental note)

navajo woman

My favorite pieces were these amulets and masks.

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Each one has a story, a personality. To her, they are almost real people. Ask her about one, and she can tell you an entire back story. Name, place of origin, special abilities, even how they ended up as a protector.
In other words, they have life. Even without the back story, they are full of life.
She calls them amulets because they are little protectors or guardians.

This one was my favorite. The expression was captivating! Dixie describes her as a ‘projection object’. She sees your sadness and takes it from you so that you don’t have to carry it around.

sadness

I took a few pictures of her working on some new skulls for a series of Dia de los Muertos pieces she’s working on, and when I told her that I am actually in the middle of making a line of jewelry with carved, wooden skulls with the same theme, she gave me one! (I swear I wasn’t hinting).

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white skull

She is an amazing and fascinating lady and a talented artist. I think I want to be just like her when I grow up.

allieMonday December 19, 2011 - 12:01 am

I know right!! I told was telling Kelly how awesome she was when she booked she came in a couple times and I just wanted to be here! She totally has this energy that just makes your day better and calms you at the same time. Can we both be her when we grow up? Pretty sure a few Dixies running around would be pretty cool.

KayLynnWednesday December 14, 2011 - 11:23 am

I agree with all of the above comments. There is something very captivating about her eyes. I would love to meet her.

Famous ErinTuesday December 13, 2011 - 11:04 am

Wow! How fun! I think that Rachel is right. A dose of Dixie sounds like exactly what you needed. :) And, 73!!! What? My guess would have been maybe 60. Looks like I need to start doing some art.

RachelMonday December 12, 2011 - 1:49 pm

I keep thinking of this post. I firmly believe we are drawn to people for a reason, whether to uplift them or ourselves. I think Dixie came into your life to remind you that creativity is within YOU. Find that creative energy that she shared by being in her presence and run with it! I can’t wait to see what you come up with next.

ElaineSaturday December 10, 2011 - 4:47 pm

She is really beautiful! I would love to meet her. I love her feathers and her name, way hip! And she has the kindest, happiest eyes. Thanks for this post!

Emily Busath MurdockFriday December 09, 2011 - 10:25 pm

So, she’s fascinating, creative, beautiful (inside and out) — sound like you’re already JUST like her! :)

Thanks for sharing, this was really neat to read!